insemination.

Artificial insemination , or AI, is the process by which sperm is placed into the reproductive tract of a female for the purpose of impregnating the female by using means other than sexual intercourse. In humans, it is used as assisted reproductive technology, using either sperm from the woman's male partner or sperm from a sperm donor (donor sperm) in cases where the male partner produces no sperm or the woman has no male partner.

Specifically, freshly ejaculated sperm, or sperm which has been frozen and thawed, is placed in the cervix (intracervical insemination – ICI) or, after washing, into the female's uterus (intrauterine insemination – IUI) by artificial means.

In humans, artificial insemination was originally developed as a means of helping couples to conceive where there were 'male factor' problems of a physical or psychological nature affecting the male partner which prevented or impeded conception. Today, the process is also and more commonly used in the case of choice mothers, where a woman has no male partner and the sperm is provided by or on behalf of a sperm donor.

if i dont meet anyone worthy, i would love to be a choice mother. cos i want a child. my own child.

where u?

i have not spoken to mahen in 24hours.

mahendran, where are u? havent you realize by now that my days are incomplete w/o u?! without ur yelling, irritation and ignorance, i feel empty! something  is definitely not going well on ur side. i hope it'll get better soon. cos i miss u yaar, the only annoying orange i will ever miss is u!

clown!

Papa dearest :)

Not a day goes by without me missing you dearest appa. How I'm still wishing that all this was a very horrible and bad nightmare. I took you for granted. Everything you said and did for me all remains in my memory vividly. I have put you down one too many times but you have always brushed it aside. You know appa, there were so many things that I wanted to do for you. But just before I can do it, you decided to pull the plug. I wanted to take driving pa, I wanted to rent a car and drive you around the whole week after I pass my tp. I know that would have made you happy. You wanted to dine in at jack's place days before your admission at tan tock seng, I had the money, and I rmbr telling you "let's go appa", you ever so nicely said "it's ok ma, keep the money, don't waste it." why appa? Why did you act like everything was ok when really nothing was ok? When you were critically ill at nuh, you always smiled to hide your misery, you gave me hope to believe, while you struggled to fight the battle. On my birthday this year, I visited you. Your eyes were wide open, you were excersizing your hands. You looked so cute. I asked you whether you rmbrd wad day it was, you nodded your head. I told u I was 22, u looked at me amazed. You then touched my face and u started crying, you hugged me. I cried and cried. That day was a torture appa. It was so painful. I miss u appa. Who's gonna hear me out now? Hmmm..

Henna treatment/Randomness

So work with Aunty Ji ended at 2, came tekka for mum's denture try-on session. Well, she was late so I decided to do henna treatment for my hair. Quite excited. Hahaha. I'm being very positive that my hair will look awesome and beautiful soon :) and I'm so excited with my upcoming dentures. Haha. Yes, I paying for her. Anything for her. I hope that with the dentures her swallowing will improve. Did I mention tht mum has been choking on practically everything she eats? Scary shit! (Ps: right now my hair is under the steamer and the heat is steaming my brain! Haha.) anyway, back to mum, I brought her to consult the dr and with god's grace her throat is fine. No cancer or tumor. But must bring her for another check up soon, that's to check her swallowing strength. Hope everything will go on fine. I love mum. Alot. And I know u know that very well mahen :)

Interesting.

Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger?
There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given by the Chinese.....
 
Thumb represents your Parents
Second (Index) finger represents your Siblings
Middle finger represents your-Self
Fourth (Ring) finger represents your Life Partner
& the Last (Little) finger represents your children
 
Firstly, open your palms (face to face), bend the middle fingers and hold
them together - back to back
Secondly, open and hold the remaining three fingers and the thumb - tip to tip

Now, try to separate your thumbs (representing the parents)...., they will
open, because your parents are not destined to live with you lifelong, and
have to leave you sooner or later.

Please join your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers
(representing siblings)... ., they will also open, because your brothers and
sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own
separate lives.

Now join the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers (representing
your children)... .., they will open too, because the children also will get
married and settle down on their own some day.

Finally, join your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers
(representing your spouse).
You will be surprised to see that you just CANNOT......, because Husband &
Wife have to remain together all their lives - through thick and thin!!
 
Please try this out......... ....


ISN'T THIS A GOOD THEORY?

From Paiya. Currently hooked on this.

En kadhal solla aasai illai, a trademark-Yuvan track with his own vocals that has now become a genre by itself! I bet if you are a Yuvan fan, you will start loving this song the moment you listen to it for the first time. Na Muthukumar has done a great job with the lyrics part. I am quite sure guys are gonna get mad after listening to this song. If there is one word that best describes this song, its Jim-dandy. :)

Song: En kadhal solla
Movie Name : Paiyaa
Music : Yuvan Shankar Raja
Lyrics : Na Muthukumar
Singer : Yuvan Shankar Raja



En kadhal solla neram illai
un kadhal solla thevai illai
nam kadhal solla vaarthai illai
unmai maraithaalum maraiyaadhadi

Un kaiyil sera engavillai
un tholil saaya aasaiyillai
nee pona pimbu sogam illai
endru poi solla theriyadhadi

Un azhagale un azhagale
en veyil kaalam adhu mazhai kaalam
un kanavale un kanavale
manam alaipaayum mella kudai saayum

En kadhal solla neram illai
un kadhal solla thevai illai
nam kadhal solla vaarthai illai
unmai maraithaalum maraiyaadhadi

Kaatrodu kai veesi nee pesinaal
endhan nenjodu puyal veesudhe
vayadhodum manadhodum sollamale
sila ennangal valai veesudhe
kadhal vandhale kannodu dhan
kallathanam vandhu kudi yerumo
konjam nadithenadi konjam thudithenadi
indha vilayaattai rasithenadi

Un vizhiyaale un vizhiyaale
en vazhi maarum kan thadumaarum
adi idhu yedho oru pudhu yekkam
idhu valithalum nenjam adhai yerkum

Oru vaarthai pesamal enai paaradi
undhan nimidangal neelatume
veredhum ninaikaamal vizhi moodadi
endhan nerukangal thodaratume
yaarum paakkamal enai paarkiren
ennai ariyamal unai paarkiren
siru pilaiyena endhan imaigal adhu
unai kandaale gudhikindradhe

En adhigaalai en adhigaalai
un mugam paarthu dhinam yezha vendum
en andhi malai en andhi malai
un madi saiyndhu dhinam vizha vendum

En kadhal solla neram illai
un kadhal solla thevayilai
nam kadhal solla vaarthai illai
unmai maraithaalum maraiyadhadi

Un kaiyil sera yengavillai
un tholil saaya aasaiyillai
nee pona pimbu sogam illai
endru poi solla theriyadhadi

The rich and the poor.

Ever wondered why the rich always remain rich and the poor always poor? Sometimes I wonder how do the rich remain rich and why does the poor maintain slave-hood. When I do private cases, I'm simply blown away with the life the rich people live. Wow! Seriously! Wow! All I can do is admire the beauty of their houses and their posh lives! Have u been to great world city's service apartments? Simply mind blowing. And not forgetting the arrogance that comes along with the client who resides there. She treats her maid like a dirt rag and she is super fussy! She often forgets that the maid is still a person who is being under paid due to her qualifications! When I look at this behavior that being displayed,I thank my lucky stars for an educational background. Did u know that nurses are actually highly paid maids? Well yes, sadly we are. Often we are expected to clean up the mess left by the weak. Ps: I'm thinking about the billionaire song. (I wanna be a billionaire, so friggin bad. Buy all of the things I never had..) haha. Oh well, she's paying me an handful, so I'm supposed to shut up and listen to her whine like a rich old bitch!

Ps: Mahen, I still have not figured how to put in a shoutout box for u and only u to comment. Haha. I shall figure it out soon. In the meantime, pls don't miss ms E too much ok :)