Henna treatment/Randomness

So work with Aunty Ji ended at 2, came tekka for mum's denture try-on session. Well, she was late so I decided to do henna treatment for my hair. Quite excited. Hahaha. I'm being very positive that my hair will look awesome and beautiful soon :) and I'm so excited with my upcoming dentures. Haha. Yes, I paying for her. Anything for her. I hope that with the dentures her swallowing will improve. Did I mention tht mum has been choking on practically everything she eats? Scary shit! (Ps: right now my hair is under the steamer and the heat is steaming my brain! Haha.) anyway, back to mum, I brought her to consult the dr and with god's grace her throat is fine. No cancer or tumor. But must bring her for another check up soon, that's to check her swallowing strength. Hope everything will go on fine. I love mum. Alot. And I know u know that very well mahen :)

Interesting.

Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger?
There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given by the Chinese.....
 
Thumb represents your Parents
Second (Index) finger represents your Siblings
Middle finger represents your-Self
Fourth (Ring) finger represents your Life Partner
& the Last (Little) finger represents your children
 
Firstly, open your palms (face to face), bend the middle fingers and hold
them together - back to back
Secondly, open and hold the remaining three fingers and the thumb - tip to tip

Now, try to separate your thumbs (representing the parents)...., they will
open, because your parents are not destined to live with you lifelong, and
have to leave you sooner or later.

Please join your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers
(representing siblings)... ., they will also open, because your brothers and
sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own
separate lives.

Now join the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers (representing
your children)... .., they will open too, because the children also will get
married and settle down on their own some day.

Finally, join your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers
(representing your spouse).
You will be surprised to see that you just CANNOT......, because Husband &
Wife have to remain together all their lives - through thick and thin!!
 
Please try this out......... ....


ISN'T THIS A GOOD THEORY?

From Paiya. Currently hooked on this.

En kadhal solla aasai illai, a trademark-Yuvan track with his own vocals that has now become a genre by itself! I bet if you are a Yuvan fan, you will start loving this song the moment you listen to it for the first time. Na Muthukumar has done a great job with the lyrics part. I am quite sure guys are gonna get mad after listening to this song. If there is one word that best describes this song, its Jim-dandy. :)

Song: En kadhal solla
Movie Name : Paiyaa
Music : Yuvan Shankar Raja
Lyrics : Na Muthukumar
Singer : Yuvan Shankar Raja



En kadhal solla neram illai
un kadhal solla thevai illai
nam kadhal solla vaarthai illai
unmai maraithaalum maraiyaadhadi

Un kaiyil sera engavillai
un tholil saaya aasaiyillai
nee pona pimbu sogam illai
endru poi solla theriyadhadi

Un azhagale un azhagale
en veyil kaalam adhu mazhai kaalam
un kanavale un kanavale
manam alaipaayum mella kudai saayum

En kadhal solla neram illai
un kadhal solla thevai illai
nam kadhal solla vaarthai illai
unmai maraithaalum maraiyaadhadi

Kaatrodu kai veesi nee pesinaal
endhan nenjodu puyal veesudhe
vayadhodum manadhodum sollamale
sila ennangal valai veesudhe
kadhal vandhale kannodu dhan
kallathanam vandhu kudi yerumo
konjam nadithenadi konjam thudithenadi
indha vilayaattai rasithenadi

Un vizhiyaale un vizhiyaale
en vazhi maarum kan thadumaarum
adi idhu yedho oru pudhu yekkam
idhu valithalum nenjam adhai yerkum

Oru vaarthai pesamal enai paaradi
undhan nimidangal neelatume
veredhum ninaikaamal vizhi moodadi
endhan nerukangal thodaratume
yaarum paakkamal enai paarkiren
ennai ariyamal unai paarkiren
siru pilaiyena endhan imaigal adhu
unai kandaale gudhikindradhe

En adhigaalai en adhigaalai
un mugam paarthu dhinam yezha vendum
en andhi malai en andhi malai
un madi saiyndhu dhinam vizha vendum

En kadhal solla neram illai
un kadhal solla thevayilai
nam kadhal solla vaarthai illai
unmai maraithaalum maraiyadhadi

Un kaiyil sera yengavillai
un tholil saaya aasaiyillai
nee pona pimbu sogam illai
endru poi solla theriyadhadi

The rich and the poor.

Ever wondered why the rich always remain rich and the poor always poor? Sometimes I wonder how do the rich remain rich and why does the poor maintain slave-hood. When I do private cases, I'm simply blown away with the life the rich people live. Wow! Seriously! Wow! All I can do is admire the beauty of their houses and their posh lives! Have u been to great world city's service apartments? Simply mind blowing. And not forgetting the arrogance that comes along with the client who resides there. She treats her maid like a dirt rag and she is super fussy! She often forgets that the maid is still a person who is being under paid due to her qualifications! When I look at this behavior that being displayed,I thank my lucky stars for an educational background. Did u know that nurses are actually highly paid maids? Well yes, sadly we are. Often we are expected to clean up the mess left by the weak. Ps: I'm thinking about the billionaire song. (I wanna be a billionaire, so friggin bad. Buy all of the things I never had..) haha. Oh well, she's paying me an handful, so I'm supposed to shut up and listen to her whine like a rich old bitch!

Ps: Mahen, I still have not figured how to put in a shoutout box for u and only u to comment. Haha. I shall figure it out soon. In the meantime, pls don't miss ms E too much ok :)

omg.

Recently, in a large French city, a poster featuring a young, thin and tanned woman appeared in the window of a gym.




It said: "THIS SUMMER DO YOU WANT TO BE A MERMAID OR A WHALE?"



A middle aged woman, whose physical characteristics did not match those of the woman on the poster, responded publicly to the question posed by the gym.



To Whom It May Concern:

Whales are always surrounded by friends (dolphins, sea lions, curious humans). They have an active sex life, they get pregnant and have adorable baby whales. They have a wonderful time with dolphins, stuffing themselves with shrimp. They play and swim in the seas, seeing wonderful places like Patagonia, the Barren Sea and the coral reefs of Polynesia. Whales are wonderful singers and have even recorded CDs. They are incredible creatures and virtually have no predators other than humans. They are loved, protected and admired by almost everyone in the world.



Mermaids don't exist. If they did exist, they would be lining up outside the offices of Argentinean psychoanalysts due to an identity crisis. Fish or human?

They don't have a sex life because they kill men who get close to them, not to mention how could they even have sex? Therefore they don't have kids either. Lastly,who wants to get close to a girl who smells like a fish store?



The choice is perfectly clear to me; I want to be a whale.

dearest Mahendran :)

thank you for being the only soul in the world to read my blog. hahahaha. its like you have access to my heart and its emotions and feelings. hey, you must feel honoured. hahahaha. out of all people i have met. you are seriously, different. MAD actually. you force me to blog about my life so you can read it! enna la ithu? and you even make me give a deadline for blogging! but thank you, like you mentioned, it has made me feel better. it may not solve my problems, but i feel less burdened. i am often able to express myself better with words rather than talking. talking just screws things up la. big time. better not to talk to anyone about feelings. today is my last day of attachments at KKH. next week is my exams. I am really not stressed about it, i should be. I have not studied. wahahahaha..but i have the weekends to sit down and get to it. All i have to do is understand what I am studying and I am good :) monday 9am is my first paper (ADULT NURSING). Got 4 papers in total. I hope I  am doing a good job la mahen, I just hope I will do well for this diploma and make my daddy proud. He deserves it.

Hey mahen, thank you ok. For...everything. Love you.

i am me, and this is my story.

Where do i start? So many things have happened seen I last blogged. 2010 has taken away many things I have held so dear to my heart. One by one it took away people whom I have held so close, FRIENDS. "Friends" they call it. Who are these people? Why do they seem so important to us? Are they really an essential part of our lifes? "Friends" whom we think will last forever actually really don't even make pass an obstacle. Sadly. Yes, my 6 years of friendship came to an interesting fullstop when an unexpected twist occured. Its rather funny if you see the full picture. The society in general can say a million things but end of the day, its how you perceive it to be that really matters.

IMPORTANT: one thing is for sure, no matter how old you are, you are never too old to be childish! (if you know what i mean!)

So they were leaving, some of them. (note: "they" means the FRIENDS who left) They were busy packing their bags and finding a way out from this dungeon (my life). Their bags sure appeared heavy with all the love and trust I have instilled in them. Looks like they have benefitted with the time they have spent with me. They were definitely not leaving empty handed, they were taking away my positivity together with them. BRATS. They decided to take my box of happiness too. Sometimes being greedy doesn't help.

I found a bigger box full of happiness, FAMILY. :)

So with the sudden emptiness in my life came a gush of importance. My parents :) the past 2 months were really precious. I spent every little moment I had with my bestest friend in the whole world. The person who would give to world to know that I am happy. This special person has been the proudest of me ever since I was born. Unlike many who have left me for their own selfish reasons, this kind self-less soul has lived to watch me grow. But time has come for him to leave this nasty place called earth to be with god where his heart will beat so strong, his kidneys will work like machines and his legs will carry him effortlessly. This wonderful person is..my dad. The man who taught me that love is the most simplest form of happiness and its something thats worth sharing. (ps: even the slightest thought of him brings tears to my eyes) I miss him.

All he ever wanted was to live long enough to watch me graduate and become a staff nurse. I'm really disheartened. No words can express how much I have yearned for him to live. Every day since the 12th of June 2010 till the day he left us, was special. I never knew it was coming. I was selfish. He knew, but he bravely took the risk and fought the best fight. He knew giving up would hurt me, so he tried. But I do thank god for giving me the courage to take care of him when he was sick. I was strong enough to face the worst and encourge him to see the best.

IMPORTANT: nothing beats the feeling of having a complete family.

I have a complete family. Though he may no longer be here physically, he will always live in our hearts.

"Every step I take, every move I make
Every single day, every time I pray
I'll be missing you
Thinkin of the days, when you went away
What a life to take, what a bond to break
I'll be missing you"
 
in the loving memory of appa :)
 
09.11.1949-04.08.2010